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					<title>Fierce Friday</title>
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					<description>Today I woke up feeling like I wake up feeling most days.&amp;nbsp; I am the definition of &amp;quot;not a morning person&amp;quot;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I decided to fake it till I make it, as they say.&amp;nbsp; Over the last 3 hours my attitude has changed and I feel fierce.&amp;nbsp; I&apos;m ready to take on all the challenges that this day has for me.&amp;nbsp; I am excited that everything seems to be moving in the right direction.&amp;nbsp; And even the things that need a little push will be moving in the right direction soon enough.&amp;nbsp; I&apos;m looking forward to a wonderful day and weekend.&amp;nbsp; How bout you?


Divaliciously Yours,
CynDiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I woke up feeling like I wake up feeling most days.&nbsp; I am the definition of &quot;not a morning person&quot;.&nbsp;&nbsp; I decided to fake it till I make it, as they say.&nbsp; Over the last 3 hours my attitude has changed and I feel fierce.&nbsp; I'm ready to take on all the challenges that this day has for me.&nbsp; I am excited that everything seems to be moving in the right direction.&nbsp; And even the things that need a little push will be moving in the right direction soon enough.&nbsp; I'm looking forward to a wonderful day and weekend.&nbsp; How bout you?<br />
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<span style="color: #993366">Divaliciously Yours,<br />
CynDiva!</span></p>]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 22:27:16 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>You Create my next project!</title>
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					<description>Hello Diva People,
I am working towards an EP of cover songs(songs previously recorded by other artists).&amp;nbsp; If you could have a recording of me singing any song in the world...what would it be? I&apos;m tallying the votes and the top 5 will appear on the EP.</description>
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I am working towards an EP of cover songs(songs previously recorded by other artists).&nbsp; If you could have a recording of me singing any song in the world...what would it be? I'm tallying the votes and the top 5 will appear on the EP.]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Thu, 21 Oct 2010 21:36:13 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>To My Destiny (day 3)</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=406978</link>
					<description>To My destiny: I&apos;ve been really watching you closely lately. I&apos;ve been studying you, for lack of a better phrase. I wanna know all your likes and dislikes. I want you to be happy, that&apos;s what makes me happy. I want to study to show myself approved. When you are ready for me, trust me I will be more than ready for you. I&apos;m not quite there yet but I&apos;m working on it. I have to admit that it isn&apos;t easy. But I&apos;ve been promised that it will be worth it. We have made plans and I want to see those plans through to the end. The end...it&amp;rsquo;s too soon to talk about the end when we are merely at the beginning. And my friends all say that they can&apos;t believe I consider this the start for us, since they&apos;ve seen us together off and on for so many years. But they don&apos;t know that all that time, we were just flirting. Ha wait till they see what we look like when we get serious.</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[To My destiny: I've been really watching you closely lately. I've been studying you, for lack of a better phrase. I wanna know all your likes and dislikes. I want you to be happy, that's what makes me happy. I want to study to show myself approved. When you are ready for me, trust me I will be more than ready for you. I'm not quite there yet but I'm working on it. I have to admit that it isn't easy. But I've been promised that it will be worth it. We have made plans and I want to see those plans through to the end. The end...it&rsquo;s too soon to talk about the end when we are merely at the beginning. And my friends all say that they can't believe I consider this the start for us, since they've seen us together off and on for so many years. But they don't know that all that time, we were just flirting. Ha wait till they see what we look like when we get serious.]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Sun, 22 Aug 2010 00:57:31 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>Be Grateful - When things finally go your way</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=252917</link>
					<description>I have been dealing with some things personally that I allowed to disturb my flow. I fought the good fight but just when I thought I had lost the battles and the war, things are starting to go my way. I have spent the past few years starting and stopping but never really getting my stride. It finally looks like the tide is turning. I have accomplished some things that I didn&apos;t think I could, I am setting myself up for the things I&apos;ve longed for but wasn&apos;t sure I could afford the time and energy to step out on them. I am going to the next level as a woman. I am proud of who I am becoming. 

I would like to thank all of those who have prayed for me and given words of encouragement. I would like to say that I truly appreciate all of the people who are proud of me and believe that I can do anything I set my mind to. I want to send all my love to all of the people who genuinely love me (Cyn, Diva, Cyndiva, singing lady, baby sis, mommy, wife-lady, Cynt-ee-uh, Auntie, Cuzzo, or whatever you call me). I want to say that I love you for loving me and even if I never sing another note or pen another verse I know that you will be there to support me; regardless of what I do or don&apos;t do. 

Most importantly, I give thanks to the giver of the dreams. I thank you Father God for allowing me to meet people who just won&apos;t give up on me, even when I am close to giving up on myself. I thank you for stoking the fires of my desires and keeping them ablaze in my heart. I am eternally grateful for this life and I am living it out loud and on purpose. 

Life is short people so do what you love. If you can&apos;t do what you love, at least do something great with the people that you love.


Divaliciously Grateful,
CynDiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been dealing with some things personally that I allowed to disturb my flow. I fought the good fight but just when I thought I had lost the battles and the war, things are starting to go my way. I have spent the past few years starting and stopping but never really getting my stride. It finally looks like the tide is turning. I have accomplished some things that I didn't think I could, I am setting myself up for the things I've longed for but wasn't sure I could afford the time and energy to step out on them. I am going to the next level as a woman. I am proud of who I am becoming. <br />
<br />
I would like to thank all of those who have prayed for me and given words of encouragement. I would like to say that I truly appreciate all of the people who are proud of me and believe that I can do anything I set my mind to. I want to send all my love to all of the people who genuinely love me (Cyn, Diva, Cyndiva, singing lady, baby sis, mommy, wife-lady, Cynt-ee-uh, Auntie, Cuzzo, or whatever you call me). I want to say that I love you for loving me and even if I never sing another note or pen another verse I know that you will be there to support me; regardless of what I do or don't do. <br />
<br />
Most importantly, I give thanks to the giver of the dreams. I thank you Father God for allowing me to meet people who just won't give up on me, even when I am close to giving up on myself. I thank you for stoking the fires of my desires and keeping them ablaze in my heart. I am eternally grateful for this life and I am living it out loud and on purpose. <br />
<br />
Life is short people so do what you love. If you can't do what you love, at least do something great with the people that you love.<br />
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<span style="color: #993366">Divaliciously Grateful,<br />
CynDiva!</span>]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 21:17:32 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>I Love Christmas</title>
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					<description>I really love this timeof year.&amp;nbsp; I like the gifts and all of the lights and music.&amp;nbsp; But the favorite part for me is spending quality time with my family.&amp;nbsp; Oh and the food.&amp;nbsp; . You know I love food.&amp;nbsp; 
But whatever your plans are for today, enjoy yourself.&amp;nbsp; If you are&amp;nbsp;spending time with your family, friends, or co-workers;&amp;nbsp; even if you plan to go it alone.&amp;nbsp; Whatever you do during this holiday season; do it till you are satisfied!!&amp;nbsp; Happy Holidays.

Divaliciously Yours,
Cyndiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[I really love this timeof year.&nbsp; I like the gifts and all of the lights and music.&nbsp; But the favorite part for me is spending quality time with my family.&nbsp; Oh and the food.&nbsp; <img alt="" src="http://bandzoogle.com/common/FCKEditor/editor/images/smiley/msn/thumbs_up.gif" />. You know I love food.&nbsp; <br />
But whatever your plans are for today, enjoy yourself.&nbsp; If you are&nbsp;spending time with your family, friends, or co-workers;&nbsp; even if you plan to go it alone.&nbsp; Whatever you do during this holiday season; do it till you are satisfied!!&nbsp; Happy Holidays.<br />
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Divaliciously Yours,<br />
Cyndiva!]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Sat, 26 Dec 2009 03:29:53 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>Leary Last Minute Shopper&apos;s prayer</title>
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					<description>Dear God,
Please let there be enough room for my car in this parking lot.&amp;nbsp; Thank you for all the beautiful snow that you sent us the other day.&amp;nbsp; Please don&apos;t let the plow come by and throw any of the know brownish grey snow on me or my car while I&apos;m out here.&amp;nbsp; Even if the store is crowded Lord, please do Not let people push and shove or be rude to me. And Lord please don&apos;t let me push, shove or be rude to anyone else.&amp;nbsp; Once I have placed things in my cart, Please don&apos;t let anyone come by and take them out.&amp;nbsp; 
God please don&apos;t allow me to have to fight over the last one of anything. Cause you know I will fight.&amp;nbsp; You know I am a work in progress.&amp;nbsp; Most of all Lord, Please don&apos;t let me spend too much money.&amp;nbsp; Should any of the aforementioned things happen&amp;nbsp;to&amp;nbsp;take place, please forgive me for my thoughts, deeds and words that may not be pleasing to you.

Amen
Divaliciously Yours,
CynDiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[Dear God,<br />
Please let there be enough room for my car in this parking lot.&nbsp; Thank you for all the beautiful snow that you sent us the other day.&nbsp; Please don't let the plow come by and throw any of the know brownish grey snow on me or my car while I'm out here.&nbsp; Even if the store is crowded Lord, please do Not let people push and shove or be rude to me. And Lord please don't let me push, shove or be rude to anyone else.&nbsp; Once I have placed things in my cart, Please don't let anyone come by and take them out.&nbsp; <br />
God please don't allow me to have to fight over the last one of anything. Cause you know I will fight.&nbsp; You know I am a work in progress.&nbsp; Most of all Lord, Please don't let me spend too much money.&nbsp; Should any of the aforementioned things happen&nbsp;to&nbsp;take place, please forgive me for my thoughts, deeds and words that may not be pleasing to you.<br />
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Amen<br />
Divaliciously Yours,<br />
CynDiva!]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:08:37 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>From Broadway to a Blizzard!</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=143138</link>
					<description>Ok so this time two weeks ago,&amp;nbsp;I was in a luxury hotel preparing for my Broadway debut.&amp;nbsp; Today I am basically trapped in the house after &amp;quot;The Blizzard of 2009&amp;quot; has swept its way through the Eastern Seaboard.&amp;nbsp; Oh my goodness!! 
It is my humble opinion that snow is best kept on Christmas cards and TV movies.&amp;nbsp; 

--What in the world?!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I have been hearing large scary mounds of snow falling off of these lovely Baltimore row homes that we are blessed to habitate in.&amp;nbsp; I just pray that no poor defenseless animal or human was down on the ground under that thud I just heard out of my back window.

(contemplating)&amp;nbsp; Yup over it!! Bring on Spring.&amp;nbsp; Is it time for the ground hog yet?? I know it sounds like I&apos;m complaining and I very well may be but, I haven&apos;t liked snow since elementary school.&amp;nbsp; Although, I&apos;ve had time to catch up on some of the stuff that I otherwise would have been too busy to do.&amp;nbsp; So I guess that&apos;s a good thing.&amp;nbsp; 


Divaliciously Yours,
CynDiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[Ok so this time two weeks ago,&nbsp;I was in a luxury hotel preparing for my Broadway debut.&nbsp; Today I am basically trapped in the house after &quot;The Blizzard of 2009&quot; has swept its way through the Eastern Seaboard.&nbsp; Oh my goodness!! <br />
It is my humble opinion that snow is best kept on Christmas cards and TV movies.&nbsp; <br />
<br />
--What in the world?!&nbsp;&nbsp;I have been hearing large scary mounds of snow falling off of these lovely Baltimore row homes that we are blessed to habitate in.&nbsp; I just pray that no poor defenseless animal or human was down on the ground under that thud I just heard out of my back window.<br />
<br />
(contemplating)&nbsp; Yup over it!! Bring on Spring.&nbsp; Is it time for the ground hog yet?? I know it sounds like I'm complaining and I very well may be but, I haven't liked snow since elementary school.&nbsp; Although, I've had time to catch up on some of the stuff that I otherwise would have been too busy to do.&nbsp; So I guess that's a good thing.&nbsp; <br />
<br />
<br />
Divaliciously Yours,<br />
CynDiva!]]></content:encoded>
					<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 02:59:51 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>From Broadway to a Blizzard!</title>
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					<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>From Broadway to a Blizzard!</title>
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					<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 12:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>The Foreign Exchage in Baltimore</title>
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					<description>Last night I attended a show at the 8X10 club in Baltimore. OOOOOWEEEE, can I just say that I love the Foreign Exchange!! I love the concept and the execution of what they do. The band was hot. Nicolay and Zo! are a filled to capacity with genius. Phonte is way too talented for his own good.(He can sing, rap, dance in just one show). Mr. D-Brock was flexing some vocal muscles ( I see you growing up young man). Ms. YahZarah, Ms. Yahzarah, wow. Sister girl was reppin for the ladies. Powerful, sexy, strong, sweet all wrapped up together in one of the hottest dresses that I have seen in awhile. Ms. Carlitta Durand, this was my first time seeing her in action and I was not disappointed. Tigallo kept saying that it was not just music, it was ministry and I believe.
If I had more cash on me, I would have given the brother an offering. I got some really disappointing news yesterday and I was contemplating not coming to the show. But my best friend reminded me that I would be angry with myself if I missed this one. I reluctantly agreed. I was instantaneously lifted to another level and I have yet to come down. I&apos;m at the &amp;quot;day job&amp;quot; humming and singing (sleepily but...) when yesterday I felt like crying. So thank you for doing it the way that you do. I needed it and I appreciate it.
I also want to thank you all for being sooo cool and so accessible after the show. I think that is a major part of your appeal. You all kind of have that talented cousin from down south that performs at the barbeques vibe. I love you for it. 

Diva People,
If you have the opportunity to see the Foreign Exchange perform live, do not sleep.&amp;nbsp; Go get your tickets, not now but right now!

I love you always
Divaliciously Yours,
Cyndiva!
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					<content:encoded><![CDATA[Last night I attended a show at the 8X10 club in Baltimore. OOOOOWEEEE, can I just say that I love the Foreign Exchange!! I love the concept and the execution of what they do. The band was hot. Nicolay and Zo! are a filled to capacity with genius. Phonte is way too talented for his own good.(He can sing, rap, dance in just one show). Mr. D-Brock was flexing some vocal muscles ( I see you growing up young man). Ms. YahZarah, Ms. Yahzarah, wow. Sister girl was reppin for the ladies. Powerful, sexy, strong, sweet all wrapped up together in one of the hottest dresses that I have seen in awhile. Ms. Carlitta Durand, this was my first time seeing her in action and I was not disappointed. Tigallo kept saying that it was not just music, it was ministry and I believe.<br />
If I had more cash on me, I would have given the brother an offering. I got some really disappointing news yesterday and I was contemplating not coming to the show. But my best friend reminded me that I would be angry with myself if I missed this one. I reluctantly agreed. I was instantaneously lifted to another level and I have yet to come down. I'm at the &quot;day job&quot; humming and singing (sleepily but...) when yesterday I felt like crying. So thank you for doing it the way that you do. I needed it and I appreciate it.<br />
I also want to thank you all for being sooo cool and so accessible after the show. I think that is a major part of your appeal. You all kind of have that talented cousin from down south that performs at the barbeques vibe. I love you for it. <br />
<br />
Diva People,<br />
If you have the opportunity to see the Foreign Exchange perform live, do not sleep.&nbsp; Go get your tickets, not now but right now!<br />
<br />
I love you always<br />
Divaliciously Yours,<br />
<span style="color: #993366">Cyndiva!<br />
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					<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 19:57:05 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>The VMAs</title>
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Ok so Janet and the crew, excuse me Ms. Jackson (you know why) LOL. Anyway, Ms J did her thang as expected. The tribute was well performed and tastefully done. Hail to the King! 

But what the world happened after that?? Was everybody channeling ODB last night? Lil Mama crashed Jigga- Mans performance. Mr. West was acting out. Lady GaGa was all over the place. I thought this was an MTV event not UBN (insider). In the words of the &amp;quot;family folk&amp;quot;,&amp;rdquo;Child it was just messy, all kinds of messy. &amp;quot; 
The only thing missing was nobody yelled Wu-Tang 4ever!! 

I do not know about you but Lady GaGa coming to the stage to accept an award with lace over her face was insanely hilarious to me. I was cracking up like &amp;quot;are you serious?? You are talking to millions of people with your face completely covered?&amp;quot; Gratefully she later removed the restriction. And before the VMAs, I was convinced that Russell Brand would be the messiest thing on the stage. Oh how wrong I was. The industry that I love is losing its collective mind. Wow.



Divaliciously yours, 
Cyndiva!
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<p>Ok so Janet and the crew, excuse me Ms. Jackson (you know why) LOL. Anyway, Ms J did her thang as expected. The tribute was well performed and tastefully done. Hail to the King! <br />
<br />
But what the world happened after that?? Was everybody channeling ODB last night? Lil Mama crashed Jigga- Mans performance. Mr. West was acting out. Lady GaGa was all over the place. I thought this was an MTV event not UBN (insider). In the words of the &quot;family folk&quot;,&rdquo;Child it was just messy, all kinds of messy. &quot; <br />
The only thing missing was nobody yelled Wu-Tang 4ever!! <br />
<br />
I do not know about you but Lady GaGa coming to the stage to accept an award with lace over her face was insanely hilarious to me. I was cracking up like &quot;are you serious?? You are talking to millions of people with your face completely covered?&quot; Gratefully she later removed the restriction. And before the VMAs, I was convinced that Russell Brand would be the messiest thing on the stage. Oh how wrong I was. The industry that I love is losing its collective mind. Wow.<br />
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Divaliciously yours, <br />
Cyndiva!<br />
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					<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 20:39:15 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>Getting back into the swing of things</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=518992</link>
					<description>Ok so I have been on Hiatus for a while. I have been hold up in my Diva&apos;s den for far too long. If you were wondering it&apos;s sort of like a cocoon. Except its purple and it has an endless supply of mus...</description>
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					<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>The loss of my potential new homegirl</title>
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					<description>This is one of the most personal blogs that I have ever written.Have you ever met someone who is always the life of the party? Well I am usually that person. And sometimesit gets to be a burden. ...</description>
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					<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>Getting back into the swing of things</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=157280</link>
					<description>Ok so I have been on Hiatus for a while. I have been hold up in my Diva&apos;s den for far too long. If you were wondering it&apos;s sort of like a cocoon. Except its purple and it has an endless supply of mus...</description>
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					<title>The loss of my potential new homegirl</title>
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					<description>This is one of the most personal blogs that I have ever written.Have you ever met someone who is always the life of the party? Well I am usually that person. And sometimesit gets to be a burden. ...</description>
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					<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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					<title>I can&apos;t do it for you..</title>
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					<description>I disagree with the commercial that say the military is the toughest job you&apos;ll ever love.&amp;nbsp; I strongly believe that the toughest job you&apos;ll ever love is parenting.&amp;nbsp; This is the time of year when report cards come home in the mail.&amp;nbsp; For some parents its a time of braggadocio when you call all your friends and the childs grandparents, godparents, and anyone else who will listen.&amp;nbsp; You call them just to say how well your child has done in school.&amp;nbsp; The thought process is &amp;quot;see, I&apos;m a good parent my kid is doing well in school&amp;quot;.&amp;nbsp; 

But, what about when you know that your child is capable of doing much more than he or she actually is doing?&amp;nbsp; Are you a bad parent if you don&apos;t &amp;quot;beat some sense into them&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;ground them until they are 35&amp;quot;?&amp;nbsp; Are you&amp;nbsp;really a horrible parent if you give your child every opportunity and assistance&amp;nbsp;to excel and they still don&apos;t succeed?&amp;nbsp; Intellectually the answer of course is no, you are not a bad parent.&amp;nbsp; But the question remains why does it feel like it?&amp;nbsp; 
&amp;nbsp;Why does your child&apos;s grades, popularity, talents, or lack thereof&amp;nbsp;feel like a direct reflection of us as&amp;nbsp;parents??
I do not know&amp;nbsp;if you do, Please feel free to chime in.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;What I do know is that I am getting a banner made to post in my house that reads &amp;quot; I can&apos;t be you, cause I&apos;m busy being me.&amp;quot;

Is the real problem that we do and have done too much for our children? Is the problem that we (in&amp;nbsp;an effort to make things better for them than they were for us) have passified and made our children lazy and complacent?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
What really is the issue?
Comment and let me know what you feel.


Divaliciously Yours,
Cyndiva</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[I disagree with the commercial that say the military is the toughest job you'll ever love.&nbsp; I strongly believe that the toughest job you'll ever love is parenting.&nbsp; This is the time of year when report cards come home in the mail.&nbsp; For some parents its a time of braggadocio when you call all your friends and the childs grandparents, godparents, and anyone else who will listen.&nbsp; You call them just to say how well your child has done in school.&nbsp; The thought process is &quot;see, I'm a good parent my kid is doing well in school&quot;.&nbsp; <br />
<br />
But, what about when you know that your child is capable of doing much more than he or she actually is doing?&nbsp; Are you a bad parent if you don't &quot;beat some sense into them&quot; or &quot;ground them until they are 35&quot;?&nbsp; Are you&nbsp;really a horrible parent if you give your child every opportunity and assistance&nbsp;to excel and they still don't succeed?&nbsp; Intellectually the answer of course is no, you are not a bad parent.&nbsp; But the question remains why does it feel like it?&nbsp; <br />
&nbsp;Why does your child's grades, popularity, talents, or lack thereof&nbsp;feel like a direct reflection of us as&nbsp;parents??<br />
I do not know&nbsp;if you do, Please feel free to chime in.&nbsp;&nbsp;What I do know is that I am getting a banner made to post in my house that reads &quot; I can't be you, cause I'm busy being me.&quot;<br />
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Is the real problem that we do and have done too much for our children? Is the problem that we (in&nbsp;an effort to make things better for them than they were for us) have passified and made our children lazy and complacent?&nbsp;&nbsp;<br />
What really is the issue?<br />
Comment and let me know what you feel.<br />
<br />
<br />
Divaliciously Yours,<br />
Cyndiva]]></content:encoded>
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					<title>All or Nothing at All?!</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=40713</link>
					<description>I was recently speaking to a friend and he told me that I am always either doing too much or hardly doing anything at all. I agreed and continued the conversation. Later I thought about it and came up with a thought. This thought that I am sure that I have had before. I have probably even posted a blog about it in the past. 

Anyway, I believe that the reason that I overdo things is because I was born the youngest child. I always feel like I have something to prove. Though most of my siblings are regular everyday people, I do have a brother who is a lawyer and lives in another state. The fact that he lives so far away makes him a bit of a hero to the family, because they do not see his shortcomings. Moreover, when he comes to visit nobody wants to hear about his real life, just the Highlights. I also have a brother who is one of the greatest dad&apos;s I know. At least that is the way it looks from where I am sitting.

I have said before that I am the youngest of my mother&apos;s 11 children so I have many people watching me. And since I had babies before a degree, there are those who have written me off. Nevertheless, the question remains why must I always fly full throttle until I burn out. Thankfully, I now have friends who aren&apos;t afraid to tell me that I am not a secret member of the X-Men. I have no super powers and I should learn to govern myself accordingly.

I have also recently realized that I make many of the decisions I make because I feel like its what &amp;quot;adults are expected to do.&amp;quot; I almost got myself into $40 some odd thousand dollars of debt recently because adults are &amp;quot;supposed to have college degrees.&amp;quot;

Honestly, I do not have one and I don&apos;t want one. I really want a Grammy, an American Music Award, a Lady of Soul Award and a Multi-Platinum ringtone. But sitting at a desk for 45 hours a week cannot get me those things. Neither can spending 4 years in an accelerated learning degree program. However, that is what &amp;quot;responsible people&amp;quot; do. 
I am learning to be true-er to myself and follow my heart. But my children still need to be fed and clothed. I still need shows and earrings, etc. So where is the happy medium??? I do not know yet. However, I am working real hard at finding it.
Wish me luck!!

Divaliciously Yours!
Cyndiva</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[I was recently speaking to a friend and he told me that I am always either doing too much or hardly doing anything at all. I agreed and continued the conversation. Later I thought about it and came up with a thought. This thought that I am sure that I have had before. I have probably even posted a blog about it in the past. <br />
<br />
Anyway, I believe that the reason that I overdo things is because I was born the youngest child. I always feel like I have something to prove. Though most of my siblings are regular everyday people, I do have a brother who is a lawyer and lives in another state. The fact that he lives so far away makes him a bit of a hero to the family, because they do not see his shortcomings. Moreover, when he comes to visit nobody wants to hear about his real life, just the Highlights. I also have a brother who is one of the greatest dad's I know. At least that is the way it looks from where I am sitting.<br />
<br />
I have said before that I am the youngest of my mother's 11 children so I have many people watching me. And since I had babies before a degree, there are those who have written me off. Nevertheless, the question remains why must I always fly full throttle until I burn out. Thankfully, I now have friends who aren't afraid to tell me that I am not a secret member of the X-Men. I have no super powers and I should learn to govern myself accordingly.<br />
<br />
I have also recently realized that I make many of the decisions I make because I feel like its what &quot;adults are expected to do.&quot; I almost got myself into $40 some odd thousand dollars of debt recently because adults are &quot;supposed to have college degrees.&quot;<br />
<br />
Honestly, I do not have one and I don't want one. I really want a Grammy, an American Music Award, a Lady of Soul Award and a Multi-Platinum ringtone. But sitting at a desk for 45 hours a week cannot get me those things. Neither can spending 4 years in an accelerated learning degree program. However, that is what &quot;responsible people&quot; do. <br />
I am learning to be true-er to myself and follow my heart. But my children still need to be fed and clothed. I still need shows and earrings, etc. So where is the happy medium??? I do not know yet. However, I am working real hard at finding it.<br />
Wish me luck!!<br />
<br />
Divaliciously Yours!<br />
<span style="color: #993366">Cyndiva</span>]]></content:encoded>
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					<title>Spring?</title>
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					<description>Hello Diva People,
Anybody who knows me knows that I love the Spring.&amp;nbsp; All of the flowers and trees begin to bloom again, the weather gets a little warmer, the world becomes colorful again.&amp;nbsp; This Spring is taking its time here in Charm City. The winter just wont let go. It is April and I still see people prancing around in boots.&amp;nbsp; The thing is that&amp;nbsp;the weather is cool enough that it doesn&apos;t seem odd to be in boots.

Its funny how some years there almost is no winter here and some years the winter just won&apos;t let go.&amp;nbsp; This past winter has been tough for&amp;nbsp;your diva, in several ways. I won&apos;t bore you with the details but I&apos;ll tell you this... 
The onset of Spring gives me hope that my dreams will begin to bloom again.&amp;nbsp; I feel my creative juices beginning to stir again,(Nico will be happy to hear that).&amp;nbsp; 

I feel the winter blues fading away. It&apos;s time to be creative and colorful again. Its time to let Cyn be Diva, you dig?!
And so be it.

Divaliciously Yours,
Cyndiva</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Diva People,<br />
Anybody who knows me knows that I <span style="color: #ff0000">love</span> the Spring.&nbsp; All of the flowers and trees begin to bloom again, the weather gets a little warmer, the world becomes colorful again.&nbsp; This Spring is taking its time here in Charm City. The winter just wont let go. It is April and I still see people prancing around in boots.&nbsp; The thing is that&nbsp;the weather is cool enough that it doesn't seem odd to be in boots.<br />
<br />
Its funny how some years there almost is no winter here and some years the winter just won't let go.&nbsp; This past winter has been tough for&nbsp;your diva, in several ways. I won't bore you with the details but I'll tell you this... <br />
The onset of Spring gives me hope that my dreams will begin to bloom again.&nbsp; I feel my creative juices beginning to stir again,(Nico will be happy to hear that).&nbsp; <br />
<br />
I feel the winter blues fading away. It's time to be creative and colorful again. Its time to let Cyn be Diva, you dig?!<br />
And so be it.<br />
<br />
<span style="color: #993366">Divaliciously Yours,<br />
Cyndiva</span></p>]]></content:encoded>
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					<title>Looking Forward</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=32773</link>
					<description>2009 is here!&amp;nbsp; Last year was tough but we are tougher.&amp;nbsp; We made it thus far, maybe a little jaded, perhaps a little bruised.&amp;nbsp; But we made it nonetheless.&amp;nbsp; I am looking forward to such great things in 2009. And thankfully this time its not just talk, I&apos;ve done the research and I have the plan to propel me to &amp;quot;the HNL&amp;quot;(Hole Nova Level).&amp;nbsp; I have been in some meetings and still have some meetings left to have.&amp;nbsp; The outlook for 2009&amp;nbsp;is Divalicious.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;

Cyndiva&apos;s&amp;nbsp;2009


    Cyndiva reveals endorsement deals with&amp;nbsp;several new products.
    &amp;nbsp;
    Release of several recording projects (my solo project, some features, several mixtapes, etc).
    Auditions for Cyndiva&apos;s new recording and touring band (Spring/Summer 09).
    Cyndiva on tour.
    Cyndiva&apos;s updated calendar of events.
    Your chance(s) to win Cyndiva Merch.
    Updated photo gallery at Cyndiva.com
    Monthly Newsletter
    And So Much More!

Welcome to Cyndiva&apos;s 2009
Divaliciously Yours,
Cyndiva!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[2009 is here!&nbsp; Last year was tough but we are tougher.&nbsp; We made it thus far, maybe a little jaded, perhaps a little bruised.&nbsp; But we made it nonetheless.&nbsp; I am looking forward to such great things in 2009. And thankfully this time its not just talk, I've done the research and I have the plan to propel me to &quot;the HNL&quot;(Hole Nova Level).&nbsp; I have been in some meetings and still have some meetings left to have.&nbsp; The outlook for 2009&nbsp;is Divalicious.&nbsp; &nbsp;<br />
<div style="text-align: center"><b><br />
Cyndiva's&nbsp;2009<br />
</b></div>
<ul>
    <li>Cyndiva reveals endorsement deals with&nbsp;several new products.<br />
    &nbsp;</li>
    <li>Release of several recording projects (my solo project, some features, several mixtapes, etc).</li>
    <li>Auditions for Cyndiva's new recording and touring band (<i>Spring/Summer 09).</i></li>
    <li>Cyndiva on tour.</li>
    <li>Cyndiva's updated calendar of events.</li>
    <li>Your chance(s) to win Cyndiva Merch.</li>
    <li>Updated photo gallery at Cyndiva.com</li>
    <li>Monthly Newsletter</li>
    <li>And So Much More!</li>
</ul>
Welcome to Cyndiva's 2009<br type="_moz" />
Divaliciously Yours,<br />
<span style="color: #cc99ff">Cyndiva!</span>]]></content:encoded>
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					<title>Gratefulness Journal</title>
					<link>http://cyndiva.com/blog.cfm?feature=78227&amp;postid=30943</link>
					<description>As you all know we have come to the time of year that we Americans affectionately know as &amp;quot;the holiday season.&amp;quot;
As the end of the year approaches people begin to look back over the previous year and reflect on its ups and downs. I am a person who knows intimately how short life can be. I am grateful everyday. But for a change I decided to share with you an entry from my gratefulness journal.

I am ever so thankful today because I got to see today through my glasses/contact lenses that I purchased for myself.
I am wonderfully blessed to have my family and friends though they may drive me up a wall at times. It is a wall that I am grateful to scale from time to time.
I am awe struck to say that I am in love with a man who is still in love with me after all these years.
I am proud to be a homeowner.
I do not have everything that I want, but I have most of what I need.
I live in a country/state/city/neighborhood where I am free to have an opinion and beliefs that may or may not agree with everyone else&apos;s.
I pray peace for women all over the world who cannot say the same.
I have been blessed with the gift of song, and though I do not know all that I want to know about music, I know enough to keep me busy and happy most of the time.
I am tickled to have children who talk to me because they want to.
I do not have lots of friends but the ones I have are consistent and worth it.
I still have dreams left in front of me that give me purpose and the desire to try again each day.
I am proud of the adult that I am becoming (I&apos;m still a work in progress).
I am honored that my friends/family members come to me for advice.
I am all around grateful to be alive and well in America at such a time as this!!

Yes we can!</description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[As you all know we have come to the time of year that we Americans affectionately know as &quot;the holiday season.&quot;<br />
As the end of the year approaches people begin to look back over the previous year and reflect on its ups and downs. I am a person who knows intimately how short life can be. I am grateful everyday. But for a change I decided to share with you an entry from my gratefulness journal.<br />
<br />
I am ever so thankful today because I got to see today through my glasses/contact lenses that I purchased for myself.<br />
I am wonderfully blessed to have my family and friends though they may drive me up a wall at times. It is a wall that I am grateful to scale from time to time.<br />
I am awe struck to say that I am in love with a man who is still in love with me after all these years.<br />
I am proud to be a homeowner.<br />
I do not have everything that I want, but I have most of what I need.<br />
I live in a country/state/city/neighborhood where I am free to have an opinion and beliefs that may or may not agree with everyone else's.<br />
I pray peace for women all over the world who cannot say the same.<br />
I have been blessed with the gift of song, and though I do not know all that I want to know about music, I know enough to keep me busy and happy most of the time.<br />
I am tickled to have children who talk to me because they want to.<br />
I do not have lots of friends but the ones I have are consistent and worth it.<br />
I still have dreams left in front of me that give me purpose and the desire to try again each day.<br />
I am proud of the adult that I am becoming (I'm still a work in progress).<br />
I am honored that my friends/family members come to me for advice.<br />
I am all around grateful to be alive and well in America at such a time as this!!<br />
<br />
Yes we can!]]></content:encoded>
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